if you are a fan of Russel Peters you must have seen his show in Canada,
he told the crowed about his issues in regards of getting married and his mothers reaction,
you are old now Russel, and you are not married! why I don’t find you a nice girl, so you merry her.
the thing is happning to me,
my mom tkae every chance to raise the issue,
she comes back from a wedding, she would go on and on about the nice girl’s “wife martial” she met.
how educated they are, how good looking they were.
she would come back from a women community meeting and it’s all the same topic.
now she tried a new thing.
not only that, my mom would say the the women, bring their daughters to her, known that I have 2 young men ready to get married.
to meet them and talk to them and see where that would lead.
she posted a question on my http://www.formspring.me/saudimajix
now thats a new move,
she asked this Anonymously ^.^ as if i wouldn’t know it was her lol
ليش ما تبيني اخطب لك و تتزوج و اشيل احفادي
Q: why don’t you want me to find you a wife, and get married so I would carry my grandchildren?
my answer was:
لاني ما ابغى الزواج
الله يحفضك ويطول في عمرك وتشوفي احفادك من طارق وسعد ان شاء الله
اما انا ارجوكي اعفيني
A:becase I don’t want to get married
my god bless you and have a long life to see the grandchildren of my brothers Tariq and Saad.
so please spare me.
some people might think, I’m being harsh, or selfash.
but to tell you the truth it’s my life, I’m the one who is going to get married,
my point is I want to get married only if I want to get married,
not becase people around me wants it.
a friend of mine yesterday told me,
that I should really consider getting married,
he told me that now is the age of achievements as you hit your 40’s you would look back and see what have you achieved , and you might get depressed and regret that you have not done that.
does it??? i wonder.
I know myself to good, I can’t marry just anyone, I’m hard person to be with let alone spend the rest of your life with.
my views, life style don’t suite anyone.
and most of all, I don’t want to be the person, that would destroy the pink dreams of a girl in marriage.
even if I got married, I don’t want children, I would only need a companionship.
I’m 31yo, if I get married let say in my late 30’s et say 37,
and have a kid in a hurry let say 40, when he is 20 I’ll be 60 years old.
I don’t want that.
I don’t mind spending the rest of my life unmarried, I’m fine with it.
but it seems that my feeling does not count!
guys I need your help!
no matter what I tell my mom, she would never stop.
what should I do?